She's Got Stories
A vibrant, honest, and supportive community where women (especially those 50 and beyond) come together to share real-life experiences, dating adventures, and everything in between. Whether you’re here to tell your story, ask a tough question, or just see how other women have handled life’s twists and turns, you’re in the right place.
No filters. No judgment. No bullying or name-calling. Just real talk, shared wisdom, and the kind of connection that reminds you you’re not alone. So pull up a chair, pour your favorite drink, and let’s get into it — because you’ve got stories, and we’re here to hear them.
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What should I do when I feel like my marriage is over?
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. That must be incredibly hard. How are you feeling right now? You don’t have to have everything figured out—just taking things one step at a time is okay. If you ever feel like it might help, talking to a therapist can be a safe space to sort through all of this. K.
First off, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way, but I think it’s awesome that you’re asking this question — it shows you’re open to change and connection. A lot of us go through this phase when life changes dramatically, like after a divorce. The good news is that building meaningful friendships is absolutely possible, no matter where you are in life.
Join Groups or Classes You’re Interested In: This can be anything from a book club to a cooking class, yoga, or even a volunteer group. It’s all about finding people who share your interests. When you’re engaging in something you love, it’s easier to start conversations and find people who vibe with you.
Reconnect with Old Friends: Sometimes life gets in the way, but there may be people from your past who you haven’t talked to in a while. Reach out to them! A simple “Hey, I’d love to catch up” can go a long way. They may be in similar situations or might know someone else who’s also looking for new connections.
Sometimes life shifts can feel lonely, but the right people are out there.
Hi, I’m 55 and recently divorced, and I’m struggling to make new friends. A lot of my married friends have pulled away, and I’m feeling a bit isolated. How can I meet new people and build meaningful connections at this stage of my life?
Do you think it’s okay to lie about your age (56) if you look younger and feel better than your actual age on a dating app?
Being upfront while still highlighting your youthful energy and positive lifestyle is a balanced way to go about it. Saying something like, “I may be 56, but I live and feel much younger thanks to an active lifestyle and a positive mindset,” is honest but also lets potential matches know that you’re vibrant, youthful, and in great shape. It’s a good way to showcase your personality without feeling like you’re hiding anything.
People are drawn to confidence, and framing it this way keeps the focus on what really matters—your energy and mindset—without feeling like you’re hiding behind a false number. Plus, it opens up the conversation to talk about the things you’re doing to stay active, which can be a fun icebreaker!
The key to embracing this next chapter is focusing on what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. Start by nurturing your health—mind and body—because feeling good physically supports emotional well-being. Try new things, whether that’s a hobby, travel, or learning a skill you’ve always wanted to master. Build meaningful connections, invest in relationships that lift you up, and don’t be afraid to let go of things (and people) that no longer serve you. Most importantly, practice gratitude daily—it shifts your mindset and helps you appreciate the beauty of each moment, no matter how big or small. Every day is an opportunity to make this chapter your best one yet
How can I make the most of my next chapter and truly embrace the changes that come with getting older?